My boyfriend is ignoring me after I lied to him for once. A lady told a relationship coach Joro Olumofin whether her boyfriend has the right to be angry for lying to him once. There are so many reasons a guy will be ignoring you, and it’s not that he doesn’t like you too. I don’t want to waste much time guys, lets read the entire message from the lady’s snapshot below.
So this weekend, he traveled out of Lagos for a wedding. I was supposed to go with him, due to work I couldn’t.
I decided to use his absence to flex small, so I traveled nearby to spend the night with a friend. The night I traveled, he called as usual and asked where I was; I lied that I was going home and stuck in traffic.
This man did the unexpected, called my aunt twice to reconfirm if I was home o. I didn’t tell anyone at home where I was; my aunt said she thought I was with him. Na so he called later to ask about my location, I still lied that I was home.
He said I should give the phone to my aunt, and I said she was sleeping. He called my aunt on his other line, kept in on the speaker, and my aunt said she hadn’t seen me.
I almost entered the ground. After that, he said goodnight and sent a message which got deleted instantly. Should I call back to confess that I was at my friend’s place? He just asked if it was a guy or girl (i said girl), and he said goodnight. (he has told me before he detests lies).
I called him the following afternoon, and he didn’t pick; I stopped calling two days after the incident and decided to give him space. He still hasn’t called or spoken to me. I believe if he genuinely cares, he would have reached out by now or answered my calls.
Why would he even call my aunt?? I am starting to think he wants to use this as an excuse to walk away because this is even the first time this is happening, and it’s not like he has shown 100% commitment or loyalty in the relationship. I don’t know what else to do.